Self-Mastery

Answering the Call of Self-Mastery

Let go of whom you’ve become and grasp what you can be.

What does it mean to live up to one’s fullest potential and highest conceivable good?

Life is constant change and if you float with it, the sailing is much, much smoother.

Inspired by Lao Tzu, the librarian sage priest of ancient, idyllic China, the ideas above express an invitation to answer the call of Self-Mastery.  Mastery of one’s own “self” is a twist of words.  The self, as we all think about it, is formless.  Our concepts of our selves’ are more of “a feeling” or a “kind of sense” of who we are as individual people.  When people call your name and you respond, a “self” somewhere in your mind wakes up and sends a message to your tongue.  “Yes?”  Your self responds. Self is a storm up in your head all over the place.

How Does One “Master” Something?

So, ok, how do we master something as formless as a self?  It’s just an idea.  Let that simmer a second or two, we will come back to it.  Let’s ask a different question.  How does one “master” something?

Ever see The Matrix?  There is a scene where Neo, the main character, is quite literally “downloaded” entire styles of Martial Arts as well as complex languages and all other sorts of information and knowledge, with the push of a button. ZCHWERP!  Done.  You are a master, my son, in less that 2 seconds!  Please exit through the gift shop!  Huh, uh we wish mastery was that easy.  I mean what would be the best way to make mastery a little easier and better and more…marketable?  Shorten the amount of time it takes!  Bingo, but wait a second, if we shorten the time it takes to master something doesn’t that contradict the definition of mastery?  What is the definition of “master” since I just brought it up?  As it turns out, there are a bunch:

A master is an original thing of which copies are made.  Like a master key or a master file.

A master can also mean something that controls something else.  Like a master cylinder or the master ring that controls all others.

To master can also mean to exhibit control over another person.  Like a lord of a kingdom or a master of a ship.

One can master a skill by repeating it like a master carpenter or a master artist.

Time Is the Secret

Mastery seems to imply an ability to utilize something at the highest possible level of skill. Time affords us this blessing.  Only time can provide us the moments we need to improve upon our selves. A therapist or martial arts master cannot whisper into someone’s ear the secret word and whoosh they are transformed. There is no secret code or secret knowledge that will transform you in the moment.  Save but one.  Time is the secret.  Keep doing it and you will master it.

Wanna know how to get good at something?  Do it.

What about how to be great?  Do it more.

Wanna know how to be a master?  Do it over and over and over.

Time seems to be the secret sauce here.  To master something is to learn it thoroughly. Repeated exposures.  Repetitions.  Familiar ground.

The Real Meaning of Kung Fu

I swear, and I am biased toward all things Asian, but the Chinese always come up with the best words for this stuff.  They call it kung fu.  Most of us think this means martial arts.  It doesn’t.  It means “an accumulation of time and effort.”  That’s it.  Self-mastery in a nutshell.  Time combined with where you place your effort.  Where do you place your effort and what do you do all day?  Do you repeat certain things day after day?  What sort of stuff happens to you all day?  What do you engage in and what do you seek?  Which part of the day are you most happy and which parts are the worst?

Self-Mastery Is The Highest Calling You Can Aspire To

Having a clear sense of how your time in a day is spent is VERY, VERY important.  It will add up to who you are.  Your self.  And that self will be the self we are referring to when we say self-mastery.  You become an expert of you.  You know you like the back of your hand.  To be a master of self is the highest calling you can aspire to. Exploring who you are, what you like, what you love, what you live for, what you would die for, what you will do whether people pay you to do it or not.  What do you do when no one is looking?  What do you do when no one will know? One person will always know. You. Serving that master will never end poorly. All of your experiences…boons. Every moment…treasures.

“Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason, mastery demands all of a person.” – Albert Einstein

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